The Listener: Where to Start?

The Listener - arguably the most underrated superhero of them all. Your ability to create a safe, judgment-free space is a gift that can’t be overstated in importance. This article will highlight the aspects of your support your Kind. suggests you're great at. For more practical tools, head to your Listener Toolkit from the Hub.

Here’s how to lean into your Listener magic:

1. Create a Safe Space

Let them talk without interruptions, judgments, or advice. Your role is to hear them out, even if they’re venting about something completely bonkers. Sometimes, just having someone listen is all they need.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Encourage them to open up with questions like, “How are you feeling about that?” or “What’s been on your mind lately?” Your curiosity shows you care and helps them process what’s going on. We liek the idea of asking at least 3 questions before you give any sort of opinion. It helps people feel like you're listening, and feel heard.

3. Embrace the Silence

Not every moment needs to be filled with words. Sometimes, sitting quietly with someone says more than any pep talk ever could. Silence can be golden—awkward pauses, not so much.

Feeling ready to listen with intention? Explore our guide for more ways to show up and support.