The Buddy: How Leaning Into Your Kind. Reduces the Fear of ‘Getting It Wrong’

As The Buddy, your strength lies in your unwavering presence and emotional reliability. But even the most loyal friends can feel anxious about whether they’re “doing enough” or saying the right thing. Here’s how leaning into your Buddy Kind. can help you navigate those fears with clarity and confidence.

Why Being The Buddy Works

  • Your role isn’t about fixing problems; it’s about showing up. Just being there, whether it’s for a casual chat or to sit in comfortable silence, makes a world of difference.
  • The fear of “not knowing what to say” disappears when you realise that words often aren’t as important as simply being present.

Small Actions, Big Impact

  • Send a Text: A quick “Thinking of you” message can remind someone they’re not alone.
  • Show Up Consistently: Regular coffee dates or check-ins show reliability and care.
  • Offer Quiet Support: Sometimes, all they need is someone to be there without pressure to talk.

Buddy Superpower Tip

Remember, your strength is in being a steady presence. Perfection isn’t required—your willingness to stay by their side is more than enough.