Supporting someone can be awkward. Do you say, “How are you?” and risk opening the floodgates? Do you say nothing and seem uncaring? Enter Kinds.—the ultimate cheat sheet for ditching awkwardness and leaning into what feels natural.

The magic of knowing your Kind. is that it lets (or maybe even makes) you be yourself. If you’re The Listener, for example, you’re not expected to offer solutions or motivational speeches. Your gift is just letting someone talk—and you know what? That’s enough.

The Sidekick, on the other hand, might feel out of place in a heart-to-heart, but thrives when there’s a tangible task to tackle. Need help organising a to-do list or picking up groceries? That’s their time to shine.‍

How Kinds. Smooth the Awkwardness

• They Give You a Starting Point: The Uplifter knows their role is to bring light and positivity—like sharing a funny meme or pointing out someone’s strengths and celebrating them. You already do it.
• They Take the Pressure Off: The Buddy doesn’t have to fix anything. Their superpower is simply being there. Being there takes the pressure off (seriously).
• They Embrace Your Style: The Coach turns awkwardness into action with small, practical steps that move someone forward.

Knowing your Kind. means you can support others without forcing yourself to be someone you’re not. And honestly, isn’t life awkward enough without pretending?